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In an inventive and controversial collection of essays, sociologist Susan Krieger considers the many forms of wealth, both material and emotional, that women pass on to each other. This domestic heritage—the "family silver"—is the keystone for a discussion of mother-daughter relationships, intimate relationships between lesbians, ties between students and feminist teachers, the dilemmas of women in academia as well as in the broader work world, and the importance of female separatism. Drawing on her experiences as a lesbian, a feminist, and a teacher, Krieger presents a stunning critique of higher education. She argues for acknowledging gender in all areas of women's lives and for valuing women's inner realities and outer forms of expression.

Krieger has developed a distinctly feminist approach to understanding and scholarship. Her style is self-revelatory, emotional, and at the same time deeply analytical. Her essays pioneer a new method of locating, defining, and honoring female values.

The Family Silver includes a thought-provoking discussion of gender roles among women, including the author's experience of being mistaken for a man; an exploration of teaching in a feminist classroom; and a description of the controversy that resulted when the author refused to allow a hostile male student to take one of her courses. Beautifully written,The Family Silver addresses issues of central concern to feminists, postmodernists, and queer theorists and encourages new insights into how gender profoundly affects us all.

About the Author

Susan Krieger teaches in the Program in Feminist Studies at Stanford University and is the author of The Mirror Dance: Identity in a Women's Community (1983) and Social Science and the Self: Personal Essays on an Art Form (1991).

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Table of Contents

PREFACE
INTRODUCTION
Part One
Personal Settings
ONE: GENDER ROLES AMONG WOMEN
TWO: BECOMING A LESBIAN
THREE: THE FAMILY SILVER
FOUR: THE PASSING DOWN OF SORROW
Part Two
Academic Settings
FIVE: HURTS OF THE SYSTEM
SIX: SAYING NO TO A MAN
SEVEN: LESBIAN IN ACADEME
Part Three
Feminist Teaching
EIGHT: A FEMINIST CLASS
NINE: SEPARATISM
TEN: DESIRES FOR AN IDEAL COMMUNITY OF WOMEN
NOTES

Reviews

"The Family Silver is carefully and beautifully written. A mark of Krieger's style is that she announces themes subtly, without the fanfare that social scientific writers usually adopt. . . . Whether or not one agrees with Krieger, one can appreciate her clear, direct prose and her insistence that we think again about the worlds we inhabit."
Gender and Society
"Difficult and complex issues are presented in a naked fashion. Stripped of the cloak of academic jargon, these essays are honest, vulnerable, and apt to induce an emotional response in readers. Krieger writes in a straightforward manner making her biases and perspectives clear. Not all readers will agree with her, but they are likely to question conceptions of gender and its influence in their lives, personally and professionally. If Krieger's hope is realized, the book will also encourage other women to tell their stories."
Journal of Higher Education
"A magnificent read . . . a profoundly personal narrative. The Family Silver is on the cutting edge of feminist scholarship."—Verta Taylor, coeditor of Feminist Frontiers

"Just as Krieger's The Mirror Dance was the first to describe the lesbian community, The Family Silver is the first book to blend the personal, familial, relational, professional, and political roles of lesbians in today's society. I loved reading it."—Esther Rothblum, editor of Journal of Lesbian Studies